It is never ok when someone does sexual things to you that you don’t understand or don’t want to happen, even if it is someone you know. People should not: 

  • touch you on parts of your body that you don’t want them to touch, including your penis or vagina, bum or breasts
  • make you touch parts of their body
  • make you have sex with them or other people
  • make you show them your private parts, or show you theirs
  • cut or hurt your private parts
  • make you hug or kiss someone that you don’t want to
  • watch you in the bath or shower
  • watch you undress
  • take photos or videos of you in your underwear or naked
  • ask you to send them photos or videos of you in your underwear or naked
  • send you photos or videos of them in their underwear or naked
  • say sexual things to you that you do not like
  • send you messages about sex when you don’t want them to
  • show you sexual photos or videos when you don’t want them to
  • say things about you or your body that make you feel uncomfortable or scared 

If you think you or someone else is being abused please report it as soon as possible. Reporting abuse | Leeds Safeguarding Adults Board