It is never ok when someone does sexual things to you that you don’t understand or don’t want to happen, even if it is someone you know. People should not: 

  • touch you on parts of your body that you don’t want them to touch, including your penis or vagina, bum or breasts
  • make you touch parts of their body 
  • make you have sex with them or other people
  • make you show them your private parts, or show you theirs
  • cut or hurt your private parts
  • make you hug or kiss someone that you don’t want to
  • watch you in the bath or shower
  • watch you undress 
  • take photos or videos of you in your underwear or naked
  • ask you to send them photos or videos of you in your underwear or naked
  • send you photos or videos of them in their underwear or naked
  • say sexual things to you that you do not like
  • send you messages about sex when you don’t want them to
  • show you sexual photos or videos when you don’t want them to
  • say things about you or your body that make you feel uncomfortable or scared